New Jersey’s Law Makes Bullying Hard to Ignore

 

by Ann Votaw, C.H.E.S.

New Jersey offers an extreme but worthwhile experiment in curbing classroom and online intimidation. On Sept. 1, the state mandated the country’s toughest anti-bullying legislation: The Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights, which demands comprehensive policies as outlined in 18 pages of required components.

With an anti-bullying specialist in each school and coordinator in each district, the law answers the suicide of Tyler Clementi, a Rutgers University freshman, whose roommate used a webcam to record and post Clemeni’s intimate encounter with a man.

While Clementi was a college student – and New Jersey’s law deals with K-12 – the Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights does bring awareness to the many faces of bullying: name calling, rumors, pushing, and dominating.

New Jersey is one of 47 states with anti-bullying laws, this latest replacing a softer version. Under new guidelines, schools conduct extensive training of staff and students, appoint teams of adults, and investigate bullying allegations within one day.

Yes, policies will strain resources, but I watch with interest.

Bullying Part III: Q & A with Sensei Michelle Gay

by Ann Votaw, C.H.E.S.

Sensei Michelle Gay, 4th Degree Black Belt and Founder of Kenwakan Karate, believes bullying is human nature. She teaches skills to develop stronger alternatives: to meet needs by asking for help. The following is an interview at her beautiful New York City dojo, where she instructs children and adults:

Ann Votaw: How would you define bullying?

Sensei Michelle: I think it’s domination of some kind, over another individual. It’s picking on somebody, making fun of somebody, making somebody do something against their better judgment or will, if you can do that. It could be not listening to somebody. I really think bullying is something that begins in the home, and we think it’s okay. We call it discipline or parenting when it’s really authority run amok. Abusive power.

A.V.: How big of a problem is bullying, in your experience as a karate teacher. Do you ever hear about it in your children’s classes?

S.M.: I do hear about it, and it seems like it’s insidious. It seems to always happen out of earshot. It happens in the dressing room. That’s how bullying happens. It happens off the court, in the dressing room, in the dark. It happens when kids, like in Lord of the Flies, are by themselves without an adult. It can’t flourish any other way without some isolation.

Can we always be there to make sure it doesn’t happen? No. That’s why we teach children how to be empowered. There’s a choice they can make. We want them to experience the deliciousness of leadership. Bullying isn’t a way to get what you want. There’s more empowerment in leadership, when someone willingly grants your request. When we see this, why would we chose any other way?

A.V.: How can parents help their children from being bullies or victims?

S.M.: We parents are either modeling being a victim or being a bully. We have to be responsible to that first. “What am I modeling at home?” We need to share our own victories around each other and hold our own. Children will see this, and it will create better partnerships, teams, communities. It’s infectious.

A.V.: What should a child do if he/she is being bullied?

S.M.: Tell someone. Don’t stay quiet about it. Don’t be alone. The more we keep it inside, in a conversation in our heads, it just gets bigger. I tell the kids here to keep telling someone until someone listens.

Take a survey: Please take the time to complete this anonymous, 8-question survey. You do not have to answer questions that make you uncomfortable. Results will be published in a future post. http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/JZC9LCL

Bullying Part II: Brenda High’s tips

by Ann Votaw, C.H.E.S.

Bullies and victims are more likely to have suicidal thoughts, according to a Yale School of Medicine review of 37 studies of 13 countries. Bullycide, suicide as the result of bullying, may be on the rise; adolescent suicides have increased 50 percent in the last 30 years. 

Brenda High, author of bullycide in America, lost her son, Jared to bully-influenced suicide in 1998.

Ms. High, interviewed on Judge Alex, asks that parents take children’s complaints seriously and confront school officials. Bullying happens because adults allow it to happen, she said.

“Adults aren’t doing their jobs,” she said.

Ms. High recommends that parents notice lack of concentration, break in sleep patterns, depression, and changes in habits. She tells students to practice this dialogue when confronted by bullies:

 “Leave me alone! I am sick and tired of this!”

She wants victims to use a loud voice to get teachers’ attention and to show confidence. They can take a physical stance by standing back with their hands behind their backs.

If you have ever been a bully or the victim of bullying, please fill out this anonymous survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/JZC9LCL

Results appear in future posts.

Bullying discussed and surveyed: Part I

Anti-Bullying poster by ~TheWillowWitch on deviantART

by Ann Votaw, C.H.E.S.

Eighteen years after high school, I sometimes imagine my bullies: two males and one female. In dreams, we wrestle for my self worth.  

I support the Safe Schools Improvement Act (S. 506 and H.R. 1648), a bill that would amend the Elementary and Secondary Education Act of 1965 to prohibit bullying and harassment. If enacted, the SSIA would require states to report bullying and harassment to the Department of Education[i] [ii]

Health issues. Bullying can result in poor grades, absenteeism, violence, depression, suicide, and substance abuse among bullies and victims, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. A 2009 nationwide survey found that about 20% of high school students reported being bullied on school property in the 12 months preceding the survey[iii]

The CDC Fact Sheet defines bullying as: 

  • “Attack or intimidation with the intention to cause fear, distress, or harm that is either physical (hitting, punching), verbal (name calling, teasing), or psychological/relational (rumors, social exclusion);
  • A real or perceived imbalance of power between the bully and the victim; and
  • Repeated attacks or intimidation between the same children over time”[iv].

Currently, 47 out of 50 states have anti-bullying legislation[v]. My home state, Indiana, passed anti-bullying legislation in 2005. 

Take a survey. If you have ever been a bully, a bully-victim, or victim, please answer any or all questions in this anonymous survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/JZC9LCL. Results will be posted this month in Part II. 


[i] H.R.1648 – Safe Schools Improvement Act of 2011. (n.d.). Retrieved August 12, 2011, from Open Congress for the 112th United States Congress: http://www.opencongress.org/bill/112-h1648/show
[ii] Laws and Elections. (2011, April 22). Retrieved August 12, 2011, from Human Rights Campaign: www.opencongress.org/bill/112-h1648/show
[iii] Eaton, D. K. et al. (2010). Youth risk behavior surveillance – United States 2009. Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report.
[iv] Understanding Bullying: Fact Sheet. (2011). Retrieved August 12, 2011, from Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: www.opencongress.org/bill/112-h1648/show
[v] (2011, July). Retrieved August 12, 2011, from Bully Police USA: A Watch-dog Organization – Advocating for Bullied Children : www.opencongress.org/bill/112-h1648/showorg/

Stars and steps: Americans NOT on the move

An example of moderate physical activity at work in earlier decades. This picture appeared with an article in the New York Times, May 25, 2011.

Our founding fathers believed in exercise, even light modalities like walking.

Thomas Jefferson, an avid walker, recorded his steps with a pedometer (Fenton, M. & Bassett, D. , 2006). In 1786, he wrote to his future son-in-law, “Not less than two hours a day should be devoted to exercise, and the weather should be little regarded.” Harry Truman felt similarly about his morning paces: “You should always walk as though you have someplace to go (p. 88)”.

Were they alive, Presidents Jefferson and Truman would be surprised how the U.S. is slowing down.

A recent study in PLoS One shows modern Americans burn 100 fewer calories at work than their 1960s counterparts (Church, T., Thomas, D., Tudor-Locke, C., Katzmarzyk, P., Conrad, E., Rodarte, R., Martin, M., Blair, S., Bouchard, C., 2011). Fifty years ago, half of American jobs required moderate physical activity. Today, less than 20% of jobs require such physicality, another reason for increased body weights in men and women.

Conveniences may contribute to less exercise and more chronic disease.

Dr. Toni Yancey, a professor in the health services department and co-director of the Kaiser Permanente Center for Health Equity at the University of California, Los Angeles, recommends exercise breaks throughout the day (A. Toni Yanci, MD., MPH; Neighmond, 2011). 

Yancey’s book, Instant Recess: Building a Fit Nation 10 Minutes at a Time, suggests (Neighmond, 2011):

  1. Take a 10-minute break at a scheduled time every day.
  2. Climb the stairs instead of the elevator.
  3. Place printers a few steps from the workspace instead of arm’s reach.
  4. Fidget and stand up and stretch occasionally at meetings.
  5. Replace desk chairs with stability balls.

Works Cited

(n.d.). Retrieved June 29, 2011, from A. Toni Yancey, MD., MPH: http://toniyancey.com/home.html

Church, T., Thomas, D., Tudor-Locke, C., Katzmarzyk, P., Conrad, E., Rodarte, R., Martin, M., Blair, S., Bouchard, C. (2011, May 25). Trends over 5 Decades in U.S. Occupation-Related Physical Activity and Their Associations with Obesity. PLoS ONE, 6(5).

Fenton, M. & Bassett, D. . (2006). Pedometer Walking. Guilford: The Lyons Press.

Neighmond, P. (2011, April 25). Sitting All Day: Worse For You Than You Might Think. Retrieved June 29, 2011, from npr: http://www.npr.org/2011/04/25/135575490/sitting-all-day-worse-for-you-than-you-might-think

Warren, T., Vaughn, B. Hooker, S.Sui, X., Church, T., Blair, S. (2010). Sedentary Behaviors Increase Risk of Cardiovascular Disease Mortality in Men. Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, 42(5), 879-885.

It’s all in the nose: Refining alternate nostril breathing

 Since ancient times, yogis have manipulated breath to calm the nervous system and focus busy minds. In recent decades, exercises like alternate nostril breathing (nadi shodhana) have become acceptable in the West.

Late tennis player Arthur Ashe was a reported fan of the technique (McGee). Between rounds, he draped a towel over his head so the crowd would not see his practice.

This was in the 1970s, before Target sold yoga mats.

Today, alternate nostril breathing may be less subversive.

An estimated 36% of American adults have used alternative medicine, like nadi shodhana, in the last year (Burke, A. & Marconett, S., 2008).

Scientists have long examined the positive effects of this breath on cardiorespiratory function, metabolism, grip strength, and spatial memory.

Most studies of nadi shodhana focus on breathing through just one nostril (Burke, A., et al.). The common hypothesis, with modest support, suggests that breathing through the right (active, masculine, or fight-or-flight sympathetic) nostril creates a stimulating effect while breathing through the left (passive, feminine, or rest-and-digest parasympathetic) nostril soothes the practitioner (Jain, N., Srivastava, R. D., & Singhal, A., 2005; Raghuraj, P., & Telles, S., 2003; Telles, S., Nagarathna, R., & Nagendra, H. R., 1996; Naveen K, October 1997).

In my experience, breathing through both, in nadi shodhana, generates an energetic focus essential to learning and monitoring mood. I’ve performed it during stressful subway rides, noting that nostril dominance changes throughout the day. In my New York life, a more open right nasal passage may translate into aggression, an attitude that needs balance.

The Hatha Yoga Pradipika states: “The concept in hatha yoga is, therefore, to bring about harmony between these two great forces known as ida [left side] and pingala [right side]” (Muktibodhananda, 2009, p. 8).

My hope is that help professionals – like doctors, therapists, and clergy – embrace simple breath control (pranayama) as a companion to medicine and prayer. I imagine doctors prescribing beta-blockers and nadi shodhana as something to do not just take.

One Alternate Nostril Technique:

Different sources recommend variations. The easiest for me to teach and remember is this:

  1. Place gentle pressure between the eyebrows using the right pointer and middle fingers. This nasikagra mudra alleviates headaches and eye strain. (Use the right thumb and ring finger to close off the nares.)
  2. Close the top of the right nasal passage with the right thumb. (Don’t press so hard as to bend the tip of the nose). Breath in and out through the free left nostril.
  3. Close off the left nostril with right ring finger, breathing in and out through the free right nostril.
  4. To summarize, inhale and exhale before switching sides.
  5. The Hatha Yoga Pradipika recommends continuing for five to 10 rounds (Muktibodhananda, 2009), while several studies suggest up to 15 minutes a day. Stop if you feel lightheaded or uncomfortable.

Here is a variation found in Yoga Journal

Bibliography

Barnes, P.M., Powell-Griner, E., McFann, K., & Nahin, R. L. (2002). Complementary and alternative medicine use among adults: United States. Advance Data, 1–19.

Burke, A. & Marconett, S. (2008). The Role of Breath in Yogic Traditions: Alternate Nostril Breathing. Biofeedback.

Jain, N., Srivastava, R. D., & Singhal, A. (2005). The effects of right and left nostril breathing on cardiorespiratory and autonomic parameters. Indian Journal of Physiology and Pharmacology, 469–474.

McGee, K. (n.d.). Fit to Hit. Retrieved May 27, 2011, from Kristinmcgee.com: www.kristinmcgee.com/yoga/?p=3285

Muktibodhananda, S. (2009). Hatha Yoga Pradipika. New Delhi: Thomson Press.

Naveen K, N. R. (October 1997). Yoga breathing through a particular nostril increases spatial memory scores without lateralized effects. . Psychological Reports [serial online]. , 555-561.

Raghuraj, P., & Telles, S. (2003). Effect of yoga-based and forced uninostril breathing on the autonomic nervous system. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 79–80.

Telles, S., Nagarathna, R., & Nagendra, H. R. (1996). Physiological measures of right nostril breathing. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 479–484.

Your FB status could equal health status

Facebook could be the best learning tool since pencil and paper, at least when it comes to health education.

Created in 2006, the free site is one component of Web 2.0 – interactive technologies including blogs, chat rooms, and YouTube – that allows learners to work through problems (Fischer, G., 2001). As a result, users become self-directed learners driven by life experience. (See Learning Theories.)

As an example of motivating through FB, The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) uses interactive means: e-cards, reminding family and friends to get flu shots.

In layoring sensory and teaching strategies (debates, brainstorming, peer teaching, problem solving, pictures, and film), FB can be a health educator’s best friend because users read and then do something by clicking “like” or passing information. This is exciting considering that learners retain 90% of what they do and say versus 10% of what they read (Minelli, et al., 2009).

Note: 75 million American adults read at a Basic or Basic health literacy level (Office of Disease Prevention and Health Promotion). Messages should avoid polysyllabic words above a fourth grade reading level (National Center for Education Statistics, 2006).

Finally, health educators should not compromise privacy or autonomy as highlighted in the Code of Ethics for the Health Education Profession. Thus, health educators must pay attention to sections in Article I: Responsibility to the Public. These sections include but are not limited to: “Health education specialists support the right of individuals to make informed decisions regarding health, as long as such decisions pose no threat to the health of others” (Coalition of National Health Education Organization, 1999).

Works Cited

Coalition of National Health Education Organization. (1999). Code of Ethics for the Health Education Profession.

Fischer, G. (2001). Lifelong Learning and its support with New Media,. In International Encyclopedia of Social and Behavioral Sciences, (Vol. 13, pp. 8836–8840). London, UK: Elsevier.

Minelli, M.J. & Breckon, D.J. (2009). Community health education: Settings, roles, and skills for the 21st century (5th edition ed.). Sudbury, MA: Jones and Bartlett.

National Center for Education Statistics. (2006). The health literacy of America’s adults: Results from the 2003 national assessment of adult literacy.

Office of Disease Prevention and Health Promotion. (n.d.). Healthy People 2010: Health Communication.

Enter the Self, weapons down

This hand gesture represents new beginnings and conflict resolution.

I recently met a female priest who used to be a mediator for the New York City court system. In her experience, two people in conflict will do anything to avoid direct confrontation. Warring parties –  who swear like machine guns – have nothing to say when left in silence.

Thus, she developed a technique that went something like this: “Oh, I’m so sorry. I’ve left something in my office. Let me step out for a moment.” When she returned, this former mediator found part of her job was done: Two people who hated each other conducted a more honest discussion.

The word “mediation”, according to Websters Online dictionary, is ”the act or process of mediating; especially : intervention between conflicting parties to promote reconciliation, settlement, or compromise.” Interestingly enough, the term sounds like “meditation” When done in today’s aTwittered world, the act feels like battle.

I delighted in the menagerie of poses when I started yoga. I practiced handstands and forearm stands to the point of dizziness, but after a few years, those poses turned into meaningless gymnastics. With the Recession, I meditated five minutes before bed and five minutes in the morning. While this sounds simple, I would rather do a series of arm balances. Anything to avoid being alone with my own thoughts, to mediate with my worst chitta or mindstuff.

I force myself to sit, and I hate it. When I’m done, I feel what the ancient yogis called samtosa or contentment and what my new priest friend called mercy. Sometimes I’m melancholy. Other times I’m joyful, but the experience brings clarity.

The feeling translates into that physical edge, when I’m holding a lunge and wanting to die, that uncomfortable place that some yogis call blocked happiness. “You’re not being punished,” the priest had said in regards to reconciliation, “but it’s something you must do.” When I’m done with the pose or my meditation, samtosa sometimes overcomes me. Like she said, forgiveness can knock a person out for days.

Good tea on a snowy Monday; singing praises

All the way from Soho to the Bronx, I savored the last bits of Dragon Pearl Jasmine tea. I’m remembering it still, like a final melancholy cello note, held long enough to draw tears. 

My experience started at Harney & Sons in Soho; a young Harney — third generation — pulled a tin from the wall and brewed my personal cup through a single strainer. A digital timer clocked off five minutes, giving me time to view merchandise, smell the herbs, and note Mr. Harney’s considerable skills. My drink was one of several at the taster bar.

“I’ve been here 13 years,” he said, setting timers for other individual taste tests. “When your name’s Harney, that’s what you do.”

My first sip had the forbidden texture of real butter. On this snowy President’s Day, I felt happy and sad at the same time. One sample cup reminded me of a beautiful passage in Little Bee, by Chris Cleave:

“Tea is the taste of my land; it is bitter and warm, strong, and sharp with memory. It tastes of longing. It tastes of the distance from where you are and where you come from. Also, it vanishes–the taste of it vanishes from your tongue while your lips are still hot from the cup. It disappears like plantations stretching up into the mist.”

One heartbreaking 4 oz. tin costs almost $20, a good price for quality. I can’t handle the withdrawal, at least not everyday.

Tea is mysterious, both for medicinal properties and the corresponding comfort. Like an Englishwoman, I am consoled by its smell and warmth. Tea takes time to prepare and seep. The interval between too hot and too cold is magic and fleeting.

Most studies involve green tea, reported to alleviate inflammatory bowel disease, diabetes, cancer, and bad breath. An article in New Scientist states that green tea’s antioxidants prevent several cancers including lung, breast, and prostate.

Today’s selection was jasmine tea, made from jasmine flowers over a green or white tea base. According to Johns Hopkins Medicine, jasmine is one of more than 40 essential oils that improve mood and wellness. The tea originates — appropriately so — from the Song Dynasty (960–1279).